If children and adolescents, or young person embarrassed to wear diapers and plastic pants to bed there are several different ways, can encourage. First of all, you can not stress how many will be waking up in bed comfortably dry. Second, you can allow them to different forums on the Internet (with young children is a good idea to monitor them, and they do it?) And talk to people who suffered a similar situation. There are many online forums to deal with issues such as bed-wetting smoothly. Sometimes, it helps to have listened attentively, and found it to be someone else in the same boat.
Third, consideration is a large or very large, a pair of adult size plastic pants and / or diapers. Of young people by showing the size of the actual pairs of plastic pants or diaper size larger than what would be wearing, it may help them feel better wearing diapers in bed. To see the reality and the adult size, it is emphasized that adults wear to bed also. This will help them more is psychological, rather than just to see some posted on the Internet.
Fourth, you can explain to them that people have different needs, in the management of incontinence, which is why they have many different types of clothing smoothly. There are different degrees of incontinence, some wet than others. I must stress that the youth project may not be effective thing a person to another. 5, emphasis on children during adolescence, or it is not only wearing a diaper at night. The opposite happened during the day easier to hide the use of diapers at night.
In some cases, but it may be difficult to be cautious about the use of diapers, especially if the parents to use cloth diapers and plastic pants management of bed-wetting. I would like to say for a moment and discuss this brief. If a wet brothers and sisters have to be notified or they want to wash diapers or plastic pants hung on a clothesline and dry. Or, if the water in bed sharing a room, brothers and sisters, this is not hide the use of diapers brother or sister. If this is the case, it is very important, my father left the other children of the family knows that any interference with the bed-wetting or diapers and plastic pants will not be tolerated and will result in penalties.
In the description, there are likely to Friends of the bed or rainy or brother or sister when you find out the bed-wetting come to visit. There are some preventive measures can be taken to prevent this from happening. If young people to use cloth diapers, plastic pants, you can put the diaper bucket in the laundry room, in the receipt of more than a friend. If you're worried that their diapers and plastic pants to discover you can put a special container (you can buy target or Wal-Mart), or re-present "school paper" (or similar), or to this out of the room, on receiving the more friends, and returned to their left. Plastic sheeting, can also be a source of concern because of the fact that, some of which make the voice of wrinkles or stolen can be found, if the friends who sat on the bed. I have read and heard about this place in certain circumstances, but it also can be remedied. You can from a file, a friend of water contact and put it back before going to sleep, or to increase the balance sheet of cloth on paper and preventive measures to contain sound plastic. It should be noted, although this is possible with some plastic sheeting, if the young man in his bed covered with rubber, will not be cause for concern.
At this point, I want to go back to the recommendations on how to motivate an older child or young person who is reluctant to wear diapers to bed. I have another idea is introducing an incentive scheme to encourage the child or young person to wear diapers to bed. You can view a certain amount of additional funding. You can also say that if they agree to wear a diaper in bed for at least 6 months, they can earn a certain amount of money each month, such as the $ 20.00 (or whatever the amount, parents can bear willing to pay for them). If they do not wear diapers and plastic pants to bed, you can deduct a dollar a day, at night, because they do not clear. In addition to a specific amount can be monthly, if financially viable, it may be a good idea to buy gifts, you can try them after 6 months. Or, they can get a certain number of gold stars, or points the month, providing the cash. They again will be charged a Venus or 1 point, not to wear diapers to bed every night.
I think that verbal praise is an important component of the remuneration system. There is always the possibility that some older children and adolescents may not be discouraged, to diapers, and some nights. If this is the case, it is very important encouragement. To remind them how proud you are trying to, as well as to remind them of the reward system. I would like to talk about in this direction: "We are proud of you try real nappies and plastic pants. I realized that this is not fun to wear them, but only taking into account the benefits of wearing - you will wake up well and dry. Remember , most of the evening brought to bed and more money you have to do. I know it's hard, but trying to hang in there. "
I believe that, in order to encourage them to wear diapers to bed for a long time, important to have some small bonus, you can all the way to earn rewards while waiting for the final. However, I believe that after 6 months, so they will feel very used to wearing a very comfortable wearing them, they need to wear diapers to bed themselves and their reward is not necessary. After 6 months they may be aware of how convenient it is to awaken and do a good job.
In conjunction with the use of incentive system, there are specific text (for example, workers in the field of mental health, they say), the child's age in adolescence or adult can say to myself, in order to feel more comfortable with the idea of wearing diapers and plastic pants to bed. For example, he or she can say this is their own: "This is just a costume design to absorb urine and prevent them from me and my bed wet. Wearing this does not reflect my maturity, and in fact, to take appropriate preventive measures to deal with the situation, my job more mature. It does not matter, most people think, I have done what is best, I in my own situation and special circumstances "or" I wear these at night, no one, but the I myself and my family know I have them. I have fallen asleep, and they do not like it anyway, I would like to inform them a lot, but when I put them in the night to them from the morning. It's like pulling a tooth anesthesia Next, I will not notice. "
Finally, anyone else can be said is this: "Every person's body in a different pace, some people are silly of training than some other better than others, after bed-wetting. My bladder had not developed enough, I was there Java-night stay, not the same as the first day of wear diapers during the day and night to protect me, when I was a baby, why would now be different, I still have a problem, urination, simply because I am getting old does not mean that I also need them forward, together, they make diapers, plastic pants, my size, there must be necessary, I am not the only people who wear them to urinate in bed. "
If the child is still young, you can not tell them to play small. I told them that I can not imagine, diapers and plastic pants, such as dams and bed similar to the city. Dam (in this case, the plastic diaper pants), to keep the city (in this case, in bed) and have been flooded. Or, they can pretend that they are extraordinary diapers and plastic pants to give them special powers, in this case, the power to prevent the resistance bed wet. Finally, they can look forward to the diapers and plastic pants the same way, a raincoat.
I would like to sum up this section with an example of how all the issues of concern to maintain, where appropriate, the use of the negative image of diapers diapers can have a negative influence, and self-esteem. In this section, I wish to mention the difficulties and individuals an agreement, the bed wearing a diaper, what people can say to him or her (what professionals call positive self-dialogue) in order to overcome the constraints with these difficulties, or at least reduce the intensity. Although the specific issues in his objections to wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants to bed, I feel that these recommendations apply to the use of disposable diapers also.
When reading about the difficulties of young people shocked by how much influence, and how tragically, children and other young people have the same feeling. Young people believe that certain aspects of the diapers that makes it feel like a child. And pins, as well as a large number of diapers between my legs, the sound of plastic, this is flows from his heart, which makes him feel that way. As mentioned earlier, many older children and young people may have the same feeling, but rather to look at these areas in a negative way, you can imagine is to a positive, rather than see the glass half empty and the right do not see the location of the glass half full. For example, most of the diaper can be seen as a feature - it provides more absorption, thus providing better protection. With regard to the age of puberty and the embarrassing theft of plastic pants and mobile is important to remember that, due to wearing diapers only at night, it should not be a source of concern. Parents to let him or her know that this is not uncommon for a certain degree of noise, must be with some diapers. Instead of displaying the plastic and negative people can see a positive perspective, it makes diapers water, allowing users to keep dry and comfortable. However, if sharing a room with a bed of water and concern for our brothers and sisters, the brothers will have noticed that a sound and corrugated so that the diaper when he is moving in bed concerns, can not pre-treat their parents.
He also said that parents should let all the brothers from the bed of water, we know that any disease bedwetting, diapers will not be tolerated if the punishment with their parents. As far as we are concerned about the safety pin that this should not be regarded as different from other tools, such as a fixed alignment clothing, buttons or zippers.
In terms of bed-wetting brother Another point I would like to throw. In some cases, may be older children sleep in the urine, and his brother or brothers and sisters do not have this problem. This may be a blow to self and children, if the parents put on the bed wearing a diaper, it can make him or her feel more understanding and embarrassment. If the child expressed concern, it is important to have a discussion of the parents and children. Parents can guarantee that he or she is often the case, child development at different speeds, this type of situation occurs all the time. If the child does not seem to worry, I would not put it, it is likely that he or she did not even consider this matter, but if you take Even so, they are concerned about. Moisture conditions in the bed brothers, as well as how to deal with the fact that: he or she is also wearing a diaper to sleep I will repeat what I said that his parents and brother should be discussed with the water bed (to be children and adults), and tell them in no uncertain terms to any fun in bed-wetting and / or the diaper is not allowed.
Finally, I want to tell a child who wets the bed, many adults also have problems, there are bed-wetting, wearing diapers at night. Many people may have the same feeling. I have read about the situation of one or more of the parents, bed-wetting, but the problem is not their children. Parents have felt embarrassed about wearing diapers bed, but on many occasions to support the children and their parents. This is another point should be brought to the older children and adolescents, or teens, you will need to wear diapers overnight.
At this point, I would like to discuss the following issues. I think this subject in the concept of overlapping self-esteem. While this is not common, I think it needs to be addressed. As I have done quite a lot of reading on both wet the bed, and the use of diapers to manage it in my reading I have come across cases of child educators and parents to urinate during sleep, let the kids ready for bed. A friend of mine told me years ago, such a situation, where she was keeping a child is 6 years old, she had to diaper before he went to bed. I guess in this age of toilet training, just need a bed-wetting problems diapers. This is a few days ago of the chin-up and "Goodni
I am not a pediatrician or developmental psychology, so I am not an expert in this area, but there are certain functions of the mental and physical, such as wearing long pants, shoes and connections, it can achieve a certain age, children are not obstacles to development. One day, the diapers, it seems that fall into this category also. My intuition told me that in three years or four children should be taught how to diaper the children themselves. If the child is not properly fastened the diaper which will lead to leakage of diapers parents can teach them the correct ways to bring the diapers. They can do so diapers, set on the bed, the children sat in diapers, once the correct positioning of the child in diapers to explain to them how to draw the diaper between his legs, and how their waist, as well as how to connect with. After a diaper in the child's parent or nanny can check whether the child is installed correctly. If a child should not be refastening no parents or nannies. Children can finally comment at this time there will be no parent or nurse in the room to monitor them.
In this school-age children begin to become very self-conscious of these issues, you do not want a child difficult. With this in mind, it is good to teach them to achieve self-sufficiency in this regard as soon as possible. Simple and easy to wear disposable diapers. Pinned diapers may be a bit difficult for some children, but I think you can grasp. Many parents may be concerned that young children may accidentally adhere to their own feet. I am with a woman's company, production and sale of sustenance diapers for older children, forcing it to take the stand and told me that, for a 7-year-old children needed assistance, and their parents, if the child is over the age of 7 have may depend on the development. Because it is such a paper diaper, diaper laying in bed, parents and show children how to properly fold, and let them sit in the diaper to make sure they are correct positioning, diapers, show the child how to tie his or her surroundings, as well as How to secure sustenance diapers. Because it is a parent or nanny can check to ensure that children are put on the diaper is correct, if they did not do a diaper change. For our part, plastic pants, but also can be themselves.
This is very important, parents raising children are independent, and in this respect, otherwise they would not feel ashamed, which would adversely affect self-esteem, and may be a very long time. I have read the situation, if the parents Diapered older children who wet the bed in front of the whole family in an attempt to prevent him from shame. There are other things I have heard many parents are a disgrace to stop the child to urinate in bed, but out of consideration, my readers, I will not mention them. This abhorrent practice and forms of child abuse. In both the older children to urinate in his sleep during the diaper change, it seems that the above-mentioned cases is not normal, but even if this is the case, my friend, my experience is concerned, let me feel that this issue be resolved.
There are a number of other points on the freedom of discretion, I would like to talk about. The first point is with the sponsor different water-bed. This includes nannies, relatives and friends, parents, other people in these areas. Many children who wet the bed, and wearing diapers concerns, their parents go out the night. If parents take care of a good relationship, who feel comfortable discussing this issue bedwetting, nappies and use them, take care of them will understand this problem, it should not be a source of concern. However, if they are uncomfortable discussing this issue with the nanny or other caregivers, parents think they will understand the problem, it is recommended to ensure that protective clothing have been washed away (such as parents, such as clothing with a cloth diaper and plastic pants), and offering of a child in advance, so that if the child wakes up wet in the middle of the night, but must be changed, can also be very careful.
If parents consider hiring nannies to care for their child or children, of which there are wearing diapers bedwetting problems, parents may want to discuss this issue with the relevant institutions, perhaps in an interview the nanny also. Most educators deal with these types of problems in the past, and should therefore be very professional on this issue. The second point is to spend the night at home with other people (eg a friend's house), and leave the camp. Similarly, if the parents have a good relationship with my father, friends, and rest, to discuss this issue with them, it should not be a source of concern. There may be a place for children, can be used to change clothes before going to sleep, wake up in the morning.
For our part, the camp has a number of programs directed at individuals who suffer nocturnal enuresis, urinary incontinence other related issues. One of the boys named Brandon Camp in
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